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Elevating How We Love

Dr. Gary Transforms Your Experience with Love

Smart, savvy, professional women and men are hungry for a new way to love. Whether Dr. Salyer is bringing an inspiring word at events like The Great Love Debate, sharing his passion to millions of people on a radio show like Coast to Coast AM, teaching at a corporate training or leading a small group in somebody’s living room, his goal is to give people an interactive experience that is both inspiring and transforming.

What people hunger for is to be inspired and called forth to the highest, most loving version of themselves. Most of all, they want to trust and believe that love can be different in the best way possible. It helps a lot when the message is backed by years and years of research and private practice. So the goal is to teach both the heart and science of intimate relationships.

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Elevating How We Love

Dr. Gary Transforms Your Experience with Love

Smart, savvy, professional women and men are hungry for a new way to love. Whether Dr. Salyer is bringing an inspiring word at events like The Great Love Debate, sharing his passion to millions of people on a radio show like Coast to Coast AM, teaching at a corporate training or leading a small group in somebody’s living room, his goal is to give people an interactive experience that is both inspiring and transforming.

What people hunger for is to be inspired and called forth to the highest, most loving version of themselves. Most of all, they want to trust and believe that love can be different in the best way possible. It helps a lot when the message is backed by years and years of research and private practice. So the goal is to teach both the heart and science of intimate relationships.

Book Gary Today

Dr. Salyer speaks to audiences on stages across the country as a featured inspirational speaker. As a transformational relationship mentor, he helps people re-write the rules for love in their brains. He guides both singles and couples to claim their rights to a full soulmate relationship.

His work and message is based on the science of relationships, as well as his own ground breaking theory of how people create truly loving relationships. As an expert in Attachment Theory – the study of how early experiences with love affect the rest of our lives — he revises the brain’s early templates for intimate relationships. Along the way, Dr. Salyer has studied with some of the best relationship minds in the country, like Drs. John and Julie Gottman, Daniel Siegel, Terry Real, Dan Wile, and others to name just a few.

Most importantly, all of his relationships have taught him so many things about what makes love work well. Since he was seven, when he noticed not everyone feels loved, Dr. Gary has been on a quest to understand how families can feel happy and whole. He’s spent a lifetime learning how to step into a secure love style. This journey to create a secure love style has opened his heart in a thousand different ways. Now, his passion is to share those lessons with everyone.

Dr. Salyer is the creator of the Safe to Love Again Workshop as well as the Extraordinary Couples and Extraordinary Singles Retreats. He is also a highly sought after guest on various podcasts, TV and radio shows such as The Aware Show on Hay House Radio.

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Topics from the Heart for Everyone

Your New GPS for Love: Navigating Love with Clarity and Confidence

From Quarrelling Partners to Cherishing Couple: How to Heal a Broken Relationship

Safe to Stay in Love: Stop Reacting and Start Relating

Your New GPS for Love: Navigating Love with Clarity and Confidence

Relationships today are full of confusion and pain. Many feel as if they have lost their way. Some despair because they have been fooled one time too many. Still others fear the time when love always goes down the wrong path. As a result, our generation no longer knows how to navigate relationships because our old maps are misleading us. We need a new GPS for love. In this talk, you will learn:

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The brain’s natural compass for walking the path of love

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A better way to choose partners than ‘chemistry’ or ‘the list’

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Specific love patterns and feelings that tell when you are truly loved

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How couples can end painful patterns and heal their relationship

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From Quarrelling Partners to Cherishing Couple: How to Heal a Broken Relationship

There are so many pressures on couples today that it’s easy to find yourself fighting day in and day out. No one feels good going to bed at night when the pillows feel like a dividing wall between two adversaries. Many couples stop trusting love because they keep responding to each other in the same predictable ways. So they find themselves awake in the middle of the night, asking, “How do we change our broken ways?” In this talk, you will learn:

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The core feelings partners need to give and receive so each feels truly loved

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Ways to create a We that is stronger than any conflict or fight

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How to get beyond the conflict or distance to cherish each other deeply

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What allows partners to go from grievances to feeling grateful for each other

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Safe to Stay in Love: Stop Reacting and Start Relating

Love is often lost in the little moments where some tiny ‘mole hill’ explodes into a volcanic mountain. We all have wounds that can get triggered in a moment’s notice. Then, we say or do something that we wish we could take back. But we can’t. When it’s all over, love is left teetering over a precipice of pain. So the question becomes; how do we stop our triggered reactions so love can last? In this talk, you will learn:

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Why love needs a calm brain that gives no BS and takes no BS

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How the masters of love go beyond triggers to treasuring each other

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Ways to understand and tame your reactive states with grace and skill

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How to turn your partner’s enduring vulnerabilities into endearing traits

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Safe to Succeed: How Relationship Patterns Affect Your Business

Somewhere, in the back of your mind life doesn’t make any sense. So you ask, “Why is a good woman like me struggling in love? And what’s up with the bad luck in my business and the money realm?” We’ve all been told that love and business don’t mix. However, they are related in your brain. Do you often give too much in your relationship and also struggle to charge your proper value with clients? Do you complain about not being supported at home and can’t seem to find a good assistant? In this talk, I explain why business works best when you first work on love. You will learn:

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The six permission slips your brain needs for love, success and wealth

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Specific ways each affects the entrepreneurial business model

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Ways to give yourself permission slips to succeed

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How love is always the operating system for your life

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What Promoters are Saying…

“We have been privileged to have had Gary as a featured presence in our show at numerous stops on our North American tour. He is as eloquent, passionate, informative, empowering, self-aware, funny, entertaining, and insightful as anyone we’ve ever had on our stage. He understands what makes men tick, what women want, and what all of us really need on our journey to find love and happiness.” – Brian Howie, Executive Producer of The Great Love Debate

“Dr. Gary Salyer is a heart-centered powerful expert and experienced speaker who has the ability to engage with the audience, fully serve, and provide complex and sophisticated information in an easy to understand manner that empowers audiences. I highly recommend him as a Speaker and Guest Expert.” – Rebecca Hall Gruyter, #1 Best Selling Author and Radio Show Host, TV Network Owner and Producer at VoiceAmerica

“Gary’s enthusiasm in his message is contagious. His wisdom and experience in his coaching, allows you to feel the true essence of his psychology and spirit that he expresses. Gary’s teaching material gives you a refreshed approach toward yourself and how to be in relationship with your soul mate.” – Dr. Cheryl Scheurer, PhD, Cable TV Show Host

Testimonials

“We have been privileged to have had Gary as a featured presence in our show at numerous stops on our North American tour. He is as eloquent, passionate, informative, empowering, self-aware, funny, entertaining, and insightful as anyone we’ve ever had on our stage. He understands what makes men tick, what women want, and what all of us really need on our journey to find love and happiness.” – Brian Howie, Executive Producer of The Great Love Debate

Testimonials

“Dr. Gary Salyer is a heart-centered powerful expert and experienced speaker who has the ability to engage with the audience, fully serve, and provide complex and sophisticated information in an easy to understand manner that empowers audiences. I highly recommend him as a Speaker and Guest Expert.” – Rebecca Hall Gruyter, #1 Best Selling Author and Radio Show Host, TV Network Owner and Producer at VoiceAmerica.

Testimonials

“Gary’s enthusiasm in his message is contagious. His wisdom and experience in his coaching, allows you to feel the true essence of his psychology and spirit that he expresses. Gary’s teaching material gives you a refreshed approach toward yourself and how to be in relationship with your soul mate.” – Dr. Cheryl Scheurer, PhD, Cable TV Show Host

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