Inspired to Make Love Last

Lasting Love Needs More Than Skills

If the path to lasting love isn’t just more ‘skills’, what is?

Why Loving Men, Listen to Feelings

Lasting couples feel their partner’s heart. Then love soars.

Real Love Empowers Your Voice

Feeling seen and heard is what makes a happy couple.

Are You Falling Out Of Love?

Ever catch yourself looking over at your partner and asking, “Who is this person? What am I doing in this relationship?”

And then you remember all the good times, the spark, the love and connection that brought you together so many years ago.

But the minutes and the hours and the days since then seem so far away. He doesn’t touch you the way he used to. You aren’t as excited to see him after a day at work. You fight more. You make love less.

And you wonder if this is just a slow descent into how things will always be.

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Warning: You are Exhibiting Signs of Being Human

Relationships are hard. They take work.

They are even harder if you don’t give them the time, attention, and care they need to grow and develop. Every great couple has to work on their relationship at times. So you are not alone.

The beginnings of love are easy. We get lost in emotions, starry-eyed, and carried away by fantasies of who our partner is. Or perhaps, who you dream they will be.

And then you wake up. You find out they are, just like you, a human being too. They have their own wounding and pain that travels along with them in your relationship. Sometimes it can feel like a very crowded room where your delicate heart has no room to breathe.

On the other side of your disappointment, turmoil, and conflict you can reclaim your right to a loving relationship. Conflicts can be resolved — peacefully and with genuine concern for the deep needs and wounds of each other. Distance can be replaced by closeness. Love can feel wonderful again.

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Creating a Loving, Lasting We

Being with someone long enough to see their hidden parts, their pain, and their wounded-ness is a gift. We rarely let anyone see into the shadows of our souls — to reveal ourselves.

It’s also an opportunity to create a genuine We — a space for love to grow and expand between you. It is the space where with a little bravery and compassion you can enter into the love that rarely gets written about in romance novels but is so clearly reflected in those couples who hold hands when they are in their nineties, support each other in living their dreams and are often seen snuggling by the fire long after anyone thinks that kind of love should still be around.

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When You Are Ready…

Stepping into a relationship bigger than the storybooks requires a decision. It requires you to stand in the uncomfortable spaces for a little while, to examine your lives, to release your pain, and to do it with another human being by your side.

It requires that, for a little while, we put down our blame and our shame and our guilt, even when it feels scary and vulnerable. Because the truth is, you are two beautiful human beings that deserve to have a great love for each other. Deep down, you are so worthy of a genuine love that lasts.

This is the work I do with couples. It’s not about creating overnight miracles or making him or her totally different. It’s about releasing the pain that is getting in the way of you remembering your deep love for each other. From that place of learning new ways to create a loving relationship, love flourishes.

This doesn’t mean that your relationship will be perfect. Perfection doesn’t really exist. But what it does mean is that you may rekindle the spark that you felt so long ago, find yourself more trusting and loving of each other, enjoy being together and create new ways to have the life that you want together.

Schedule

Love Re-ignited

Here’s what working with me can do for a couple:

Rekindle the love and passion

Heal from past relationship wounds with each other

Replace the conflicts or distancing moves with peace and harmony

Drop the grievances you have with each other

Experience intimacy and trust like you've never felt them before

Discover the power to create an international partnership

Love like a master

Navigate parenting issues and be a better mom or dad

Schedule

Testimonials

“A game-changing book that skillfully illuminates the the blocks to love so many suffer with. This magnificent work offers practical, healing solutions that will put you on the path to deep and lasting love.” — Arielle Ford, bestselling author of The Soulmate Secret “Gary Salyer teaches those of us who’ve been bruised how to find hope again.”
Terry Real, bestselling author of The New Rules of Marriage
“What Safe to Love Again reveals goes to the very heart of why we as individual and coupled souls were put here . . . to the meaning of life itself!”
Dr. Michael R. Norwood, bestselling author of The 9 Insights of the Wealthy Soul and Speaking Your Truth
“This book will revolutionize relationship counseling. Safe to Love Again makes attachment theory practical to the reader for dating, mating, and relating." — Edie Weinstein, Psychotherapist “Dr. Gary’s unique and powerful approach is breathtaking and awe inspiring! This is a must read for those who are ready to feel safe enough to love and be loved deeply!"
Dr. Mary Ozegovich, Marriage and Family Therapist
“I sat down to read Safe to Love Again. It wasn’t a read; it was an experience! I now know what it feels like to be in a secure love. I could not put down this book!” — Rochelle, Nurse and Health Coach
“This book showed me a road map to emotional freedom. I don’t have to prove every day that I’m worthy to be here! I’m reclaiming my life and no words can describe how freeing that is.” — Liliya, Nurse “Dr. Gary Salyer brilliantly explains how luck has nothing to do with relationships. If you would like to take control to create your own experience in love, this book is for you.”
Michael, Attorney
“If I had to go back in time and choose only one book to read my whole life, it would be Safe to Love Again. It eloquently expresses the full scope of what love really is in a way that shortcuts years of learning.”
Brenda, Executive Coach
“Safe to Love Again changed my life. I’m now in alignment with reality when it comes to love, romantic relationships and finding my soulmate. Wow! This is freedom.” — Stephanie, Artist “Safe to Love Again helps us move beyond our past hurts to reclaim what is our birthright—a deeply committed relationship that both feels good and lasts. Dr. Salyer will show you how love is meant to feel.” — Joan, Freelance Editor “Dr. Salyer's new book was the missing piece for me in my marriage. He illuminates so many facets of what makes not only a relationship work but also what creates an integrated We. This book is a relationship game changer!”
Alexandra, Coach

Are You Falling Out Of Love?

Ever catch yourself looking over at your partner and asking, “Who is this person? What am I doing in this relationship?”

And then you remember all the good times, the spark, the love and connection that brought you together so many years ago.

But the minutes and the hours and the days since then seem so far away. He doesn’t touch you the way he used to. You aren’t as excited to see him after a day at work. You fight more. You make love less.

And you wonder if this is just a slow descent into how things will always be.

Schedule

Warning: You are Exhibiting Signs of Being Human

Relationships are hard. They take work.

They are even harder if you don’t give them the time, attention, and care they need to grow and develop. Every great couple has to work on their relationship at times. So you are not alone.

The beginnings of love are easy. We get lost in emotions, starry-eyed, and carried away by fantasies of who our partner is. Or perhaps, who you dream they will be.

And then you wake up. You find out they are, just like you, a human being too. They have their own wounding and pain that travels along with them in your relationship. Sometimes it can feel like a very crowded room where your delicate heart has no room to breathe.

On the other side of your disappointment, turmoil, and conflict you can reclaim your right to a loving relationship. Conflicts can be resolved — peacefully and with genuine concern for the deep needs and wounds of each other. Distance can be replaced by closeness. Love can feel wonderful again.

Schedule

Creating a Loving, Lasting We

Being with someone long enough to see their hidden parts, their pain, and their wounded-ness is a gift. We rarely let anyone see into the shadows of our souls — to reveal ourselves.

It’s also an opportunity to create a genuine We — a space for love to grow and expand between you. It is the space where with a little bravery and compassion you can enter into the love that rarely gets written about in romance novels but is so clearly reflected in those couples who hold hands when they are in their nineties, support each other in living their dreams and are often seen snuggling by the fire long after anyone thinks that kind of love should still be around.

Schedule

When You Are Ready…

Stepping into a relationship bigger than the storybooks requires a decision. It requires you to stand in the uncomfortable spaces for a little while, to examine your lives, to release your pain, and to do it with another human being by your side.

It requires that, for a little while, we put down our blame and our shame and our guilt, even when it feels scary and vulnerable. Because the truth is, you are two beautiful human beings that deserve to have a great love for each other. Deep down, you are so worthy of a genuine love that lasts.

This is the work I do with couples. It’s not about creating overnight miracles or making him or her totally different. It’s about releasing the pain that is getting in the way of you remembering your deep love for each other. From that place of learning new ways to create a loving relationship, love flourishes.

This doesn’t mean that your relationship will be perfect. Perfection doesn’t really exist. But what it does mean is that you may rekindle the spark that you felt so long ago, find yourself more trusting and loving of each other, enjoy being together and create new ways to have the life that you want together.

Schedule

Love Re-ignited

Here’s what working with me can do for a couple:

Rekindle the love and passion

Heal from past relationship wounds with each other

Replace the conflicts or distancing moves with peace and harmony

Drop the grievances you have with each other

Experience intimacy and trust like you've never felt them before

Discover the power to create an international partnership

Love like a master

Navigate parenting issues and be a better mom or dad

Schedule

Testimonials

“A game-changing book that skillfully illuminates the the blocks to love so many suffer with. This magnificent work offers practical, healing solutions that will put you on the path to deep and lasting love.”
Arielle Ford, bestselling author of The Soulmate Secret

Testimonials

“Gary Salyer teaches those of us who’ve been bruised how to find hope again.” — Terry Real, bestselling author of The New Rules of Marriage

Testimonials

“What Safe to Love Again reveals goes to the very heart of why we as individual and coupled souls were put here . . . to the meaning of life itself!”
Dr. Michael R. Norwood, bestselling author of The 9 Insights of the Wealthy Soul and Speaking Your Truth

Testimonials

“This book will revolutionize relationship counseling. Safe to Love Again makes attachment theory practical to the reader for dating, mating, and relating."
Edie Weinstein, Psychotherapist

Testimonials

“Dr. Gary’s unique and powerful approach is breathtaking and awe inspiring! This is a must read for those who are ready to feel safe enough to love and be loved deeply!"
Dr. Mary Ozegovich, Marriage and Family Therapist

Testimonials

“I sat down to read Safe to Love Again. It wasn’t a read; it was an experience! I now know what it feels like to be in a secure love. I could not put down this book!”
Rochelle, Nurse and Health Coach

Testimonials

“This book showed me a road map to emotional freedom. I don’t have to prove every day that I’m worthy to be here! I’m reclaiming my life and no words can describe how freeing that is.” — Liliya, Nurse

Testimonials

“Dr. Gary Salyer brilliantly explains how luck has nothing to do with relationships. If you would like to take control to create your own experience in love, this book is for you.”
Michael, Attorney

Testimonials

“If I had to go back in time and choose only one book to read my whole life, it would be Safe to Love Again. It eloquently expresses the full scope of what love really is in a way that shortcuts years of learning.”
Brenda, Executive Coach

Testimonials

“Safe to Love Again changed my life. I’m now in alignment with reality when it comes to love, romantic relationships and finding my soulmate. Wow! This is freedom.” — Stephanie, Artist

Testimonials

“Safe to Love Again helps us move beyond our past hurts to reclaim what is our birthright—a deeply committed relationship that both feels good and lasts. Dr. Salyer will show you how love is meant to feel.” — Joan, Freelance Editor

Testimonials

“Dr. Salyer's new book was the missing piece for me in my marriage. He illuminates so many facets of what makes not only a relationship work but also what creates an integrated We. This book is a relationship game changer!” — Alexandra, Coach

Be Inspired to Love

Could you use a bit of inspiration to keep you going - to find the one for you, or to deepen and grow the relationship that you have? Dr. Gary shares three minute inspirations twice a week to help you open to even more love in your life! Sign up below.

Be Inspired to Love

Could you use a bit of inspiration to keep you going - to find the one for you, or to deepen and grow the relationship that you have? Dr. Gary shares three minute inspirations twice a week to help you open to even more love in your life! Sign up here.

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