About Dr. Gary Salyer

I Swore It Would Be Different

I swore after my first divorce, that my next marriage would be different. So when my second marriage crumbled almost a decade later for nearly the same reasons I was devastated. I felt like an utter, complete failure. All I could see was hopelessness on the horizon.

But I was determined to find another way. I was not going to be that guy who bounced from marriage to marriage never really learning anything. So I found someone to mentor me and explored my past. I read books — lots and lots of them.

In fact, I dedicated myself to doing the deep research about all things love. I had deep conversations with people I loved. Most of all, I did the deep transformations that unlocked my heart and released my soul to love as I had always imagined.

Then something wonderful happened. Love — and how to make it lasting – became my life’s highest calling.

A New Way to Love

I let go of all the stories I had been telling myself about how I wasn’t good enough for love, and decided to live a life of real love instead. In the end, my heart opened up to love in a thousand different ways.

I quite literally felt like a man who had been freed from the bondage of his childhood and his past relationships. Then I experienced the joy and peace of a man who had been liberated to live a life filled with love.

This work transformed my relationship with women, inviting a whole new way of relating that just felt better than anything I ever dreamed possible. My heart is open to love in ways that invite even more love into my life. Now this — this is the life I signed up for!

Son's wedding

A Legacy of Love

And, perhaps most importantly, it allowed me pass on a secure love style to my son. Watching him create a fabulous relationship with his wife is, without a doubt, my life’s greatest accomplishment. Listening to them promise to each other, “to nurture your dreams, because through them your soul shines,” was a father’s dream come true.

Sharing the Good News

I couldn’t imagine not sharing this kind of deep transformation with other people. This led me to coach, to speak, and to share with others this whole new way of relating to love. Those insights became the heart and soul of my new book, Safe to Love Again.

Now I get to share the good news that love can last. This thing we call love — can be the juicy, safe, wonderful, passionate, and empowering experience we all dream about. All of this and far more is how life is meant to be lived.

Three Truths I Live By

  • There are no un-resourceful people, only un-resourceful states of being.
  • It’s all adaptable!
  • Love is a simple experience that’s won or lost in the small moments.

Testimonials

“A groundbreaking book that redefines what it means to be in a safe, secure and lasting relationship. If you have ever lost hope for love, this is the book to read.” — Dr. John Gray, bestselling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. “Safe to Love Again reads like a brand new kind of heart to heart conversation about love.” — SARK, Co-author of Succulent Wild Love, PlanetSARK.com “Dr. Gary Salyer is addressing the tough questions about relationships…is love worth the hassle these days?”
Lisa Garr, Host and Creator of The Aware Show.
“Gary is eloquent, passionate and understands what we all really need on our journey to find love and happiness.” — Brian Howie, Executive Producer of The Great Love Debate “Safe to Love Again is one of the best books ever written on love!”
Paul Carrick Brunson, Elite Matchmaker, Mentor and Television Host
“Safe to Love Again will help you gather the courage and strength to empower yourself to say "Yes!" to love!”
Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, Clinical Psychologist and Author of Escaping the Hijackal Trap

About Dr. Gary Salyer

I Swore It Would Be Different

I swore after my first divorce, that my next marriage would be different. So when my second marriage crumbled almost a decade later for nearly the same reasons I was devastated. I felt like an utter, complete failure. All I could see was hopelessness on the horizon.

But I was determined to find another way. I was not going to be that guy who bounced from marriage to marriage never really learning anything. So I found someone to mentor me and explored my past. I read books — lots and lots of them.

In fact, I dedicated myself to doing the deep research about all things love. I had deep conversations with people I loved. Most of all, I did the deep transformations that unlocked my heart and released my soul to love as I had always imagined.

Then something wonderful happened. Love — and how to make it lasting – became my life’s highest calling.

A New Way to Love

I let go of all the stories I had been telling myself about how I wasn’t good enough for love, and decided to live a life of real love instead. In the end, my heart opened up to love in a thousand different ways.

I quite literally felt like a man who had been freed from the bondage of his childhood and his past relationships. Then I experienced the joy and peace of a man who had been liberated to live a life filled with love.

This work transformed my relationship with women, inviting a whole new way of relating that just felt better than anything I ever dreamed possible. My heart is open to love in ways that invite even more love into my life. Now this — this is the life I signed up for!

A Legacy of Love

And, perhaps most importantly, it allowed me pass on a secure love style to my son. Watching him create a fabulous relationship with his wife is, without a doubt, my life’s greatest accomplishment. Listening to them promise to each other, “to nurture your dreams, because through them your soul shines,” was a father’s dream come true.

Sharing the Good News

I couldn’t imagine not sharing this kind of deep transformation with other people. This led me to coach, to speak, and to share with others this whole new way of relating to love. Those insights became the heart and soul of my new book, Safe to Love Again.

Now I get to share the good news that love can last. This thing we call love — can be the juicy, safe, wonderful, passionate, and empowering experience we all dream about. All of this and far more is how life is meant to be lived.

Three Truths I Live By

  • There are no un-resourceful people, only un-resourceful states of being.
  • It’s all adaptable!
  • Love is a simple experience that’s won or lost in the small moments.

Testimonials

“A groundbreaking book that redefines what it means to be in a safe, secure and lasting relationship. If you have ever lost hope for love, this is the book to read.” — Dr. John Gray, bestselling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.

Testimonials

“Safe to Love Again reads like a brand new kind of heart to heart conversation about love.” — SARK, Co-author of Succulent Wild Love, PlanetSARK.com

Testimonials

“Dr. Gary Salyer is addressing the tough questions about relationships…is love worth the hassle these days?” — Lisa Garr, Host and Creator of The Aware Show.

Testimonials

“Gary is eloquent, passionate and understands what we all really need on our journey to find love and happiness.” — Brian Howie, Executive Producer of The Great Love Debate

Testimonials

“Safe to Love Again is one of the best books ever written on love!” — Paul Carrick Brunson, Elite Matchmaker, Mentor and Television Host

Testimonials

“Safe to Love Again will help you gather the courage and strength to empower yourself to say "Yes!" to love!” — Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, Clinical Psychologist and Author of Escaping the Hijackal Trap

Be Inspired to Love

Could you use a bit of inspiration to keep you going - to find the one for you, or to deepen and grow the relationship that you have? Dr. Gary shares three minute inspirations twice a week to help you open to even more love in your life! Sign up below.

Be Inspired to Love

Could you use a bit of inspiration to keep you going - to find the one for you, or to deepen and grow the relationship that you have? Dr. Gary shares three minute inspirations twice a week to help you open to even more love in your life! Sign up here.

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