The solution to all these traps is to start rewiring your brain at a deeper level than mere coaching or talk therapy. The heart of my work is to help neurons in your brain make better friends. For that to happen, you need to work with various neural networks in your brain that create and control your experience. 

To escape these traps, you must replace old, limiting neural networks that fire off all the feelings that make you feel unsafe with love, with new neural firing patterns that will help you navigate relationships in new, secure ways. That way, you can invite new, fresh, and real love in! 

These are the neural networks in your brain we'll be working on in this course to change the way your brain creates relationship patterns: 

• The Solution for Hopelessness: To feel hopeless, your brain must delete all the possibilities from your view. We’ll work with your salience network, or reticular activation system that creates perceptual filters to keep you safe like “Ways I’m Not Enough”, “Ways I’ll Be Hurt,” etc. When we reset limiting perceptual filters in your brain, you can see a world full of loving possibilities.
  
  
• The Solution for Danger: Feelings of unsafe, danger, and risky – which stop you from attracting the partner you deserve - are stored in both your brain and body. We'll work with your Vagus Nerve to swap feelings of fight, flight, or fix for feelings of calm and relaxation.
  
  
• The Solution for Broken-Down: We will do transformational exercises to invite old neural networks that cause you to feel undeserving, to make friends again with the parts of you that were born to feel worthy. When we reshape and upgrade your deep attachment networks, you will naturally feel differently about yourself and love.
  
  
• The Solution for 'Fate': There’s no such thing as fate, only attachment patterns that dictate what you can and cannot have in your relationships. We'll help you understand your love patterns without judgment so you can replace 'fate' with decisions that lead to love.
  
  
• The Solution for Perfection: Underneath perfection is a young ‘protector part’ that fears being flawed. The antidote is to support your young ‘parts’ to feel cherished for being both flawed and fabulous. We'll use cutting-edge neuroscience to help you integrate unconscious younger 'self-states' with your more resourceful, wise adult 'self-states.'
  
  
• The Solution for Family Doom: Using Family Constellations Theory and working with neural networks that tell you how to belong in limiting ways, we'll help you identify and release generational love patterns, freeing you to write a new story for love that fits your dreams.
  
  
• The Solution for Indecision: The antidote is to feel empowered with choice and guided by your Wise Highest Self. We'll strengthen the powerful circuits in your prefrontal cortex where your 'witnessing mind' lives, empowering you to choose love from a secure place.