Attract Your Soulmate

Attract Your Soulmate

Inspired to Love Again

How to Start Every Date

Simple tips to have fun, playful dates.

What Is True Love?

Soulmates always bring out the very best in each other!

Commitment Is Possible!

It’s okay to seek the commitment you are hungry for.

Going From Singles to Lasting Love

Somewhere in the back of your mind may be a still, small voice that wakes you up in the middle on the night asking, “What’s wrong with me? Why doesn’t anyone love me? Am I really broken, damaged goods, destined to be alone?”

Of course not!

Nothing is wrong with you.

You are not damaged or broken.

However, you are living in a world where the rules of romance have become really confusing – full of dating apps, swipe left, ghosting, and silly games.

Yet people still find love.

People – just like you – find love that lasts.

So what’s so different about those people? Why haven’t you found what you’re looking for yet?

Schedule

Open Up to Love Again

When you spend enough time in the desert, you begin to think there’s no water to drink. Even if you’re standing knee deep in a pond, your brain will tell you that there’s nothing but sand for miles and miles.

And when love is out of eyesight, perhaps just around the corner, your brain tells you that all is lost. You’ll settle for whatever you can get, or simply throw in the towel and give up.

We have to be able to see the love that is showing up to be able to welcome it in. It takes teaching our brains a new way to see, a new way to feel about love, a new way to think, and a new way of being in relationship with love itself. Then we can notice that love is, in fact, standing outside the door knocking, hoping you will open your heart and let it in.

Schedule

When You Are Ready…

The work that I do with singles isn’t a miracle. It’s not a quick fix or a makeover. It involves introducing you, again, to the miracle that you are – the incredible human being that showed up in this life with a deep desire for love and connection. You have a natural right for love — and you can reclaim this right!

The work trains your brain to be available for love — to take the blinders off so that you can see what is already showing up in your life. And it invites you into love in a way that feels safe for you to love with your whole self. We only get there when we can release all those old stories — including the wounds and pain — and seek someone who can genuinely love us.

You can be safe to love again. Constantly attracting Mr. or Ms. Wrong doesn’t have to be your fate. You can have your soulmate lying beside you at night rather than an empty pillow. All those tiresome dating games can become a thing of the past.

Rumi said, “The love that you are seeking is seeking you.” Over the years of working with single folks, I’ve seen how often this is true. I have been delighted to watch people heal from broken hearts, make dating fun, and ultimately find the love that they’ve been longing for. Lasting love can definitely happen for you!

Schedule

Attract The One…

Here’s what working with me can do for you:

Find a soulmate

Get back into the dating game

Heal from a divorce or broken heart

Decide if a relationship is right for you

Take your relationship to the next level of commitment

Experience intimacy like you’ve never felt it before

Discover the power to have an intentional love life

Be a better parent if you are a single parent

Schedule

Testimonials

“A game-changing book that skillfully illuminates the the blocks to love so many suffer with. This magnificent work offers practical, healing solutions that will put you on the path to deep and lasting love.” — Arielle Ford, bestselling author of The Soulmate Secret “Gary Salyer teaches those of us who’ve been bruised how to find hope again.”
Terry Real, bestselling author of The New Rules of Marriage
“What Safe to Love Again reveals goes to the very heart of why we as individual and coupled souls were put here . . . to the meaning of life itself!”
Dr. Michael R. Norwood, bestselling author of The 9 Insights of the Wealthy Soul and Speaking Your Truth
“This book will revolutionize relationship counseling. Safe to Love Again makes attachment theory practical to the reader for dating, mating, and relating." — Edie Weinstein, Psychotherapist “Dr. Gary’s unique and powerful approach is breathtaking and awe inspiring! This is a must read for those who are ready to feel safe enough to love and be loved deeply!"
Dr. Mary Ozegovich, Marriage and Family Therapist
“I sat down to read Safe to Love Again. It wasn’t a read; it was an experience! I now know what it feels like to be in a secure love. I could not put down this book!” — Rochelle, Nurse and Health Coach
“This book showed me a road map to emotional freedom. I don’t have to prove every day that I’m worthy to be here! I’m reclaiming my life and no words can describe how freeing that is.” — Liliya, Nurse “Dr. Gary Salyer brilliantly explains how luck has nothing to do with relationships. If you would like to take control to create your own experience in love, this book is for you.”
Michael, Attorney
“If I had to go back in time and choose only one book to read my whole life, it would be Safe to Love Again. It eloquently expresses the full scope of what love really is in a way that shortcuts years of learning.”
Brenda, Executive Coach
“Safe to Love Again changed my life. I’m now in alignment with reality when it comes to love, romantic relationships and finding my soulmate. Wow! This is freedom.” — Stephanie, Artist “Safe to Love Again helps us move beyond our past hurts to reclaim what is our birthright—a deeply committed relationship that both feels good and lasts. Dr. Salyer will show you how love is meant to feel.” — Joan, Freelance Editor “Dr. Salyer's new book was the missing piece for me in my marriage. He illuminates so many facets of what makes not only a relationship work but also what creates an integrated We. This book is a relationship game changer!”
Alexandra, Coach

Going From Single to Lasting Love

Somewhere in the back of your mind may be a still, small voice that wakes you up in the middle on the night asking, “What’s wrong with me? Why doesn’t anyone love me? Am I really broken, damaged goods, destined to be alone?”

Of course not!

Nothing is wrong with you.

You are not damaged or broken.

However, you are living in a world where the rules of romance have become really confusing – full of dating apps, swipe left, ghosting, and silly games.

Yet people still find love.

People – just like you – find love that lasts.

So what’s so different about those people? Why haven’t you found what you’re looking for yet?

Schedule

Open Up to Love Again

When you spend enough time in the desert, you begin to think there’s no water to drink. Even if you’re standing knee deep in a pond, your brain will tell you that there’s nothing but sand for miles and miles.

And when love is out of eyesight, perhaps just around the corner, your brain tells you that all is lost. You’ll settle for whatever you can get, or simply throw in the towel and give up.

We have to be able to see the love that is showing up to be able to welcome it in. It takes teaching our brains a new way to see, a new way to feel about love, a new way to think, and a new way of being in relationship with love itself. Then we can notice that love is, in fact, standing outside the door knocking, hoping you will open your heart and let it in.

Schedule

When You Are Ready…

The work that I do with singles isn’t a miracle. It’s not a quick fix or a makeover. It involves introducing you, again, to the miracle that you are – the incredible human being that showed up in this life with a deep desire for love and connection. You have a natural right for love — and you can reclaim this right!

The work trains your brain to be available for love — to take the blinders off so that you can see what is already showing up in your life. And it invites you into love in a way that feels safe for you to love with your whole self. We only get there when we can release all those old stories — including the wounds and pain — and seek someone who can genuinely love us.

You can be safe to love again. Constantly attracting Mr. or Ms. Wrong doesn’t have to be your fate. You can have your soulmate lying beside you at night rather than an empty pillow. All those tiresome dating games can become a thing of the past.

Rumi said, “The love that you are seeking is seeking you.” Over the years of working with single folks, I’ve seen how often this is true. I have been delighted to watch people heal from broken hearts, make dating fun, and ultimately find the love that they’ve been longing for. Lasting love can definitely happen for you!

Schedule

Attract The One…

Here’s what working with me can do for a you:

Find a soulmate

Get back into the dating game

Heal from a divorce or broken heart

Decide if a relationship is right for you

Take your relationship to the next level of commitment

Experience intimacy like you’ve never felt it before

Discover the power to have an intentional love life

Be a better parent if you are a single parent

Schedule

Testimonials

“A game-changing book that skillfully illuminates the the blocks to love so many suffer with. This magnificent work offers practical, healing solutions that will put you on the path to deep and lasting love.”
Arielle Ford, bestselling author of The Soulmate Secret

Testimonials

“Gary Salyer teaches those of us who’ve been bruised how to find hope again.” — Terry Real, bestselling author of The New Rules of Marriage

Testimonials

“What Safe to Love Again reveals goes to the very heart of why we as individual and coupled souls were put here . . . to the meaning of life itself!”
Dr. Michael R. Norwood, bestselling author of The 9 Insights of the Wealthy Soul and Speaking Your Truth

Testimonials

“This book will revolutionize relationship counseling. Safe to Love Again makes attachment theory practical to the reader for dating, mating, and relating."
Edie Weinstein, Psychotherapist

Testimonials

“Dr. Gary’s unique and powerful approach is breathtaking and awe inspiring! This is a must read for those who are ready to feel safe enough to love and be loved deeply!"
Dr. Mary Ozegovich, Marriage and Family Therapist

Testimonials

“I sat down to read Safe to Love Again. It wasn’t a read; it was an experience! I now know what it feels like to be in a secure love. I could not put down this book!”
Rochelle, Nurse and Health Coach

Testimonials

“This book showed me a road map to emotional freedom. I don’t have to prove every day that I’m worthy to be here! I’m reclaiming my life and no words can describe how freeing that is.” — Liliya, Nurse

Testimonials

“Dr. Gary Salyer brilliantly explains how luck has nothing to do with relationships. If you would like to take control to create your own experience in love, this book is for you.”
Michael, Attorney

Testimonials

“If I had to go back in time and choose only one book to read my whole life, it would be Safe to Love Again. It eloquently expresses the full scope of what love really is in a way that shortcuts years of learning.”
Brenda, Executive Coach

Testimonials

“Safe to Love Again changed my life. I’m now in alignment with reality when it comes to love, romantic relationships and finding my soulmate. Wow! This is freedom.” — Stephanie, Artist

Testimonials

“Safe to Love Again helps us move beyond our past hurts to reclaim what is our birthright—a deeply committed relationship that both feels good and lasts. Dr. Salyer will show you how love is meant to feel.” — Joan, Freelance Editor

Testimonials

“Dr. Salyer's new book was the missing piece for me in my marriage. He illuminates so many facets of what makes not only a relationship work but also what creates an integrated We. This book is a relationship game changer!” — Alexandra, Coach

Be Inspired to Love

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